Despite my Internet filters, someone or something was able to break onto the Sox page, and I was shown naked rear ends telling me what was “available” to me in my town – which it correctly identified. (Forget it, fellas. You won’t necessarily be able to find the same ad. Of course, you’ll find similar ones all over the Internet. Sigh.) This stuff is ubiquitous. It has destroyed marriages and degraded women and what should be the beauty of marital sex. But my biggest concern is that it’s tragically attacked the innocence of children, both overtly and covertly. Please don’t tell me that as a parent, I can “control” what my kids see. No, I can’t. From the paved highway to the Internet superhighway, which makes it easy for children to access or come across online pornography, it’s absolutely everywhere. By at least one estimate, Internet porn is viewed most by kids 12 to 17. What to do? The fate of Internet gambling may provide a clue. Online gambling is illegal in the United States, but that’s hard to enforce. So Sen. Jon Kyl of Arizona wrote legislation last year to give the Federal Treasury the power to regulate U.S. banks (read: credit card companies) preventing them from allowing their cards to be used for Internet gambling. The rules have not yet been finalized, and already “good citizen” major banks are voluntarily refusing to process such transactions. But people familiar with the banking industry told me there seems to be little pressure for banks to be vigilant about refusing transactions for Web sites that make it easy or relatively easy for kids to view online porn – which is, well, most pornographic Web sites. But Washington probably won’t be as successful in attempting to regulate even just child access to porn because of fears of charges of “censorship.” That leaves it up to us. The very same national banks which tell us they want to build our homes, help us provide for our families, and feature all the smiling kids in their ads are one key mechanism by which a destructive Internet porn industry, which targets kids in so many ways, can flourish. What would it take to get Bank of America, or Chase, or Wachovia, to publicly declare that they will honor and help protect families by beginning or greatly intensifying their efforts to deny transactions for Internet porn sites which in any way use kids, or which make it possible for kids to view pornography? No, this won’t end online porn, which exploits kids. But if we want to know who the family-friendly financial institutions are, we need to start following the money. Betsy Hart, the author of the forthcoming It Takes a Parent: How the Culture of Pushover Parenting is Hurting Our Kids – and What to Do About It,” wrote this column for Scripps Howard News Service. Her e-mail address is [email protected]
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